Psychology has proved that all its branches agreed
upon the fact that environment affects on the upbringing and personality of
people. The environment moulds and shapes one’s personality. A person is
affected by his parents doctrines, bias, stereotypes held toward different
things and people. The same thing is proved to be true by the theory of
Mustapha Hijazi.
The theory is called “The psychology of depressed
people”. It states that a depressed person yields to the things ascribed to him.
If the person, for examples, is labeled stupid and less successful by his
family, with time he will take it for guaranteed and assume that the claim is
true. The fact is true with Moroccan women. They are regarded as inferior;
henceforth they surrender and made themselves weak and margin. Accordingly, the
environment affects much on a person’s personality than the biological and
inherited features.
Women in some Moroccan areas are much marginalized.
Men use some degrading slogans and words while speaking about or addressing
women. To mention but only a few,” the saying which is deeply disgracing and
degrading women: “Lamra hashak “. This phrase is used in the south east of
Morocco. However, it is about to distinct nowadays thanks to many factors.
Moroccan women are known by many characteristics that
make them so special. One of these typical images on Women in general and on the
Moroccan in particular is Satanism. Demonism, foxiness and lack of faith are
the ascribed characteristics to women since ancient times. The most known
religions admit that woman is the origin of the sin. They are the cause for Man
to be dispelled from God’s mercy. Christians believe that the French word”
femme” from the Latin language refers to “Fe Minus”. The word means “carence de
foi”; a French phrase that means lack of faith. Accordingly, Jews claim the
same thing as Christians. So does pious Islamists who assume that men outweigh
women in terms of hygiene, and mental and corporal ability. They base their
judgments on menstruation and some preachers’ sayings. Furthermore, the recipes
used by women to beautify themselves or to heal casual sicknesses are not
wanted by men. They send out a stink smells. But this does not mean that women
have poor standards of a hygienist.
The standing point of outside observers is completely
different from the one of the target or observed people. To the people of Golf
and some other countries, Moroccan women are prostitutes. The European and
American people believe that Muslims are terrorists and their wives are fortune
tellers and sorceresses. I should admit that there is prostitution and sorcery in
Morocco and so is in all over the world. But the degree varies from one country
to another. The outsiders tend to over generalize to the extent that quick
judgments on women on the street overflow. Because of this overgeneralization
girls in the street face sexual harassment from Moroccan and tourist who fail
to distinguish between innocent and prostitutes.
The first thing a visitor may notice on Moroccan women
is art. They are rather than men artists in their society. The Arabic and
especially the Amazigh women shape the Moroccan identity per se. They decorated
their faces with tattoo dyed their hands and feet with henna and painted their
faces with saffron. They also embroider their clothes and scarves and head
coverings brightly colored arabesque motifs. They sew their clothes by
themselves. They are creative in essence that they find solutions to small
troubles they encounter in life.
There are many characteristics but I will just these
few ones. First, most of them are talkative especially when they met in
ceremony where there are only females. Secondly, they are shy and easy-going.
They tend to believe things at first time. Hence they spread rumors and new
incidents. In addition, in everyday life, women use all the tricky means to get
their needs. Sometimes they achieve their needs on the expense of means and
values.
A big discrepancy is clearly seen however in some
stereotypes on Moroccan women. An example would be, if a woman is characterized
by foxiness then she is cleaver. Her mental capabilities are great since she
can deceive smart people. Another discrepancy is that women are deemed to be
untidy and not clean. But, they pass all day long doing homework, cleaning,
ironing, washing clothe and catering for their offsprings. Women are the
driving force for a nation’s development. If a mother, sister, cousin and
daughter are very weak in all domains no nation will develop because Women are
half of the society.
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